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Let me tell you a secret...I know u don't wanna know just any secret but that one special secret. You'll wanna learn about the secrets in my garden. You wanna read my mind to know my deepest feelings, I'm gonna make it riiiiiight for yooooou **cue Al B. Sure** Baby Show meeeee, let me share the mystery-OOOOOH **points mic into the crowd** come on, come on, come on, come on...peep my werk couture todaaaaay!! Fun Fack: Originally Michael Jackson was supposed to been the crooner on the first verse but due to scheduling conflicts they had Al B. Sure! take his place hence why he did his hardest to impersonate him as an appreciation to the King of Pop. Ok now that I've got the song playing in ur head (and lowkey creatively re-wrote the intro of the song haha) today's colorful lewk was simplistic. I simmered down from doin the most with wearing the dress as a stand alone. Sticking to the theme this week that falls into the mixed print category; I did a subtle mix using accessories becuz the dress is the leading star. This dress has colorful flowers so I don't want to take away from the design which is why I utilized my accessories to be the subtle mix to where if u pay attention to detail you'd notice it but the average eye maintains focus solely on the main attraction. I kept the shoes a solid color but another option could've been leopard print shoes n solid colored accessories. Today's look was a good example of doing the most without doing much. Yall know I like an effortlessly effort as it relates to dressing becuz comfort is mandatory for me especially in the office. Hope yall enjoyed my Secret Garden Couture for today cuz passion can make u fall for what u feel ;)

Happy National Lipstick Day!! Now this is a groove I can get with. Whether you're into makeup or not, there's an association of women (and alike) to adding the cherry on top of a look with shades of lipstick. It makes our faces bright and just a stroke of a tube can change ur entire look. Aaaah the power of lipstick. I was totally petrified of #RedLipstick growing up. I've shared my childhood trauma's of steering clear of red period becuz it was meant for "laydeez of the night" back in the day. As I got grown-ner n more comfy in my own shell, I challenged myself with embracing the Power of Red and doing a whole month of Red Lips which was actually...empowering! Even without a full face of makeup, a red lip just brightened my day n changed my attitude. In blogs past...I did a blog post on my Top 5 Luxury Lips because I do believe there are some worth splurging. I remember the joys of going into Sephora or a Dept store and happily swatching on my arm different shades n getting a feel for texture. Playing with finishes you can find a signature for urself. Are you a matte gal, satin lover or flirtatious with gloss? I encourage yall to take a random day n check out makeup counters to chat with makeup artists who can help u find a "perfect shade". Fun Facks: Lipsticks were initially available in small pots, paper tubes (wow) or tinted papers where they'd be applied w/brushes. Thank Maurice Levy who invented lipstick in cylinder metal containers by 1915 where the tiny lever on the side hit the market. In 1923, the first swivel up tube was patented by James Bruce Mason Jr. Long lasting lipsticks were called "no smear lipstick" by chemist, Hazel Bishop. If I could choose a signature shade to wear every day it would fall into the categories of pinks, oranges and pinky nudes. I like the nudes that aren't so fleshy to wear it fades into my skin so I need a touch of SOMETHING (preferably pink) to bring a flush of life to the lips. I am not into corpse lips!! We like the breath of life over here lol. These days more than not, I will ALWAYS have a fleshy toned balm on my lips. I slather on Dior's Lipglow becuz they enhance my natural lips. If I am sicing it up, I do a nude lip cuz its just easy for me to keep up with throughout the day n I re-apply my everyday lippie. I do like how IF I wear red it can fade into a stain-again...I don't wanna work hard to keep my face up lol. Don't be like me tho haha...PLEASE try ur hand at different lipstick options. If nothing else, have a nude, red n berry shade on hand to reach for. Even liners can take the place of a lipstick when u fill 'em in n the combo's are endless and have fun.

The theme for last week's Werk Couture was Mixed Prints. There's an art to the shake up and u gotta find your sweet spot to balance the Lewk. The intimidating part of why I stayed away from mixing so much was to avoid looking crazy. U know how young kids dress themselves n look wacky as hell cuz they have no concept of matching anything. The general "rule" to mixing is to mix garments of the same color family to ease into the game. Becuz I am hard headed..I go for the gusto! Majority of how I dress is how it makes me feel as it comes together. Sometimes it'll be a vision that randomly comes to me, then I go to my closet n let my arms reach for what they believe on their own. Once I put it on if it "makes sense" I can confidently walk out the door. If not, I'll change n re-arrange until it does but I don't force it. My favorite pair is polka dots n stripes ( Tuesday ) where u break it up with a floral surprise for the POP. I also feel that anything leopard is essential to act as a neutral. If ever u wanna live on the edge; try the combo of Stripes, Floral n Leopard-OMG!! How ur outfit makes u feel makes a difference. U ever notice people who wear things n their body language shows they are self-conscious or struggling w/confidence becuz there's just something missing. From head to toe, when u are at ur best-it shows! The walk hits different. This is why mixing prints ain't for everyone n that's ok. Combining prints n patterns doesn't have to be extreme. It can be something as subtle as what I did Thursday with accessories. It can also just be a patterned top or bottom-ONE piece that can account for being out the box for u. There are no rules as it relates to fashion (there ARE rules for style n we'll chat on the difference in the two later). That was a fun week for me and I definitely served the community becuz the presentation was well received by others. I do my humanitarian service bringing a smile to face of others. In a sea of blue n black swiftly passing thru the halls of work be a work of art that stands out. I felt really good not just from the attention but becuz it felt refreshing to be out the norm and radiated from the inside out cuz I walked around with a smile.

I totally didn't intend on doin a post like this. My plan was to post what I didn't get a chance to do last Friday for #WerkCouture and also prep for this week's recap buuuuut umm...yea...I'm TIED!! I must admit; I do need to manage some time better n carve out space to do this content creating n influencing thang. However, life be life'n I explained earlier- After Hiatus -taking an unintentional break forced me to be present. Although I had no emergencies this weekend, I went to the movies (NOPE) n didn't feel a need to post it. My phone died during lunch n I had no choice but to enjoy eating without scrolling or multiple-tasking playing catch up in the DM's n podcasts. Me n my grandma had matching turbans when I took her for her drs appt, Friday n I didn't selfie us. I love how the greatest moments throughout my day aren't captured other than in (hopefully) my long term memory. I say all that to say...this shyt can get addictive. Between making the content, editing the content, engaging with content, enjoying content, learning content; u can easily fall in the rabbit hole of getting lost in social media for hours on end. There's an urge after u put it down to pick it up n check for likes n responses within the hour n u back on the rat wheel before u know it. As a creator it can get overwhelming tryin to keep up but truth is...u ain't missing nothing. There's nothing wrong with going dark or in the mode of do not disturb (DND). I am across all platforms except Tik Tok at the moment (I know, I know...I'm working on the transition lol) and I need to find a formula to where I just post n roll. Drop a pic n dip. Although I am back in the groove of posting n creating, I am looking to get on schedule to where I just batch n schedule (blogger tricks) so I can work smarter n not harder. The heat ain't been the only thing draining me sheesh! I'mma get it together tho yall...this week's Werk Couture is still happening cuz I meeeeaaaan.....I gotta go to work right lol. Summer is coming to an end n Fall will hopefully show up by Oct. The downside to that is...lost of daylight (bloggers nightmare). Water breaks ain't the only thing goin on...I'm tryin to see how to incorporate what shows be doin with a season break lol. Nonetheless, I had a great time this weekend even random photoshoots that'll see the light...one day haha. I just be curious if ever anyone else feels the need to keep up and how are u able to disconnect while building ur brand in this space. At this point, I'm bout to just build a whole social media team to keep up with my life of sharing lol. Just know if n when I fall off ur algorithm for a day or so...I'm just busy outside of the bubble n living in the moments creating memories that'll never be posted :)

The middle of the week often requires a quick pick me up to get through the remainder of the week. We've survived the beginning of the week n here we are...the halfway mark called Hump Day. Today's Werk Couture was inspired by my first dip into mixed prints. I totally didn't think twice about the clash n surprisingly...it worked. I always get compliments on this combo. The statement piece **cue singing** "if u like pina coladaaaaa" is a lovely-yet old, kimono from ASOS. Did u knoooow (per seriousfacts.com ) pineapple is used to alleviate symptoms of nasal congestion, common cold n cough?? All this time I been guzzling OJ (no knife) when I should've been taking a squig of pineapple juice. It's an easy piece to always toss on n over to let it work for u. I just added an extra kick to the mix w/the snow leopard jumpsuit. Funny thing wit onesies (jumpsuits) is I tend to not incorporate how much time it'll take me to get it off. Soooo...yea my water intake is lower cuz I definitely had some instances where it almost ain't end well n buttons tap dancing along the floor. Another quick mixed print tip...when u have a garment that's black n white, whether its stripes, polka dots, snow leopard, zebra print or any black n white pattern...IT WILL mix wonderfully with a colorful print becuz u can use it as the "neutral" (and vice versa). As a symbol of welcome in some parts of the world, when u present pineapples to someone it says "you are perfect"n today's #WerkCouture confirms the message. I got several comments throughout the day n the best one was a woman telling me she enjoyed walking behind me cuz it gave her a sense of joy n appreciated how fun the look presented itself. Mission Accomplished!

I know there's fear in mixed prints. I too was lost n now I'm found. The easiest way to dip ur toe in the water of the mix print game is to "match" yet mix patterns of the same color. My favorite is to mix polka dots n stripes. It's the easiest way to go! Now that you've gotten comfy there...toss in floral n u will never look back! When I go to work in any office, I have a signature style that can be seen a mile away. Mainly becuz I work with baby boomers who wouldn't dare n also becuz I don't straddle the line of the office environment's uniform. When I say uniform I mean the typical blaaaah's of colors: black, gray, navy. I just cannooooot. Why should life be such a drag n it dmn sure ain't gonna be within my office space. I am a self-proclaimed "Director of Morale" within my office cuz my attire will surely perk u up cuz it's nothing mundane. I have no main inspiration for today's look, it fell into my lap as I saw fit n looked around my closet. It's easy for me to pair these pants with a solid colored shirt (I love green w/black n white cuz red is so cliche) but I looked over n seen this vintage n well-thrifted shirt gifted to me from "my manager" Marci. She knows me oh so well n if she's randomly "dumpster diving" (inside joke lol) she sees something I'd more than likely wear n sends it to me from the deep south of South Carolina. THANK YOU MARCIIIIII :) I love how the top has my favorite prints to collide: polka dots + floral. The shirt does the work for me n I appreciate it. When it comes to the shoes, I do a lot of walking from the parking lot to the office n once I'm in the building sooo frolicking around in heels...I am NOT. My chucks come in handy more than ever now. I do have an option of dressy shoes at my desk (if needed) but flat shoe me please!! I coordinated a nice pink pair (converse) for the outfit and VOILA!! Polka Dots + Stripes + Floral Couture.

On a beautiful Monday to kickstart the week...I like to beat the "Monday Blues" with color. For today's Werk Couture; I decided to grab a vintage blazer n pair it with pants that accidentally matched. I say accidentally becuz I didn't get the pieces at the same time. I like to buy pieces separately that'll eventually come together (weird right lol). Becuz I am recouping from a weekend, I like to keep my start of the week style-quick. I don't wanna think too hard in what to wear becuz I'm already mentally preparing for a busy day in the office. Let me just say...for such a simple look, the blazer of it all just pulls it together n makes it look more than intended. Vintage Blazers should be a staple in everyone's closet. U can easily dress it up or down n even get dramatic n wear it over the shoulders. Speaking of shoulders...I am a fan of 80's fashion n shoulder pads had em in a chokehold (as the kids say haha). The padding adds structure to the blazer n u can totally tell the difference when its NOT there. Quick history lesson shall we....shoulder pads date back as early as the 1930's where they were intended for folks with sloping and narrow shoulders to exaggerate the width. They became popular for business styles; mainly blazers until THE Joan Crawford changed the game featuring the pads in a dress for a movie (Letty Lynton) in the 40's. During the 50's women opted for a softer look so the pads kinda faded off yet still worn in coats. By the 60's it seems like they hayday's of bold shoulders were fading n went dark until the 70's where designers pulled from old styles (typical of what we do now) n used inspo from the 30's to revamp the look. Blazer: @ShopVintageBoutique on IG Pants: ASOS Shoes: Converse (Nordstrom) Tank top: BP at Nordstrom Although the attempts was criticized (yall know how the game goes), it was Saint Laurent (YSL) who pushed thru n made the look contemporary and became the standard office look for women entering the workforce (gee...thanks) n so BAM...by the 80's it was up n stuck!! Big Shoulders was the hottest thing since the infamous scene of Tom Cruise in Risky Business. As far as I knew growing up, I related it to menswear but my mama always had a bunch of blazers with shoulder pads. She was a petite thang tho n I absolutely HATED when she made me wear one of hers. I felt it would drown me n had me lookin like a football player. I didn't grow to appreciate em til I got older but that's becuz she had some options to remove the pads (thanks to Perry Ellis). While the style of power dressing became outdated during the 90's becuz the younginz (my generation lol) tossed all that stuffy stiff dressing for more relaxed n colorful fads (hello denim erything n cross colours anyone). Well, Well, Well...in the 2000's it seems like Lady GaGa appreciated the vintage trend n shoulder pads were back in business with the mainstream. For me...I never let em go! I've been carrying my mama's legacy of style to include shoulder pads since she passed the torch to me. I know my style may be a tad "stuck in the past" but I definitely toss a modern flare to bring it current. Shoulder pads within a vintage blazer will have u stand up straight n give poise without u even realizing it becuz it takes over to drape over ur body in a way that pulls ur look together. You can have lightweight blazers to wear in the warmer months n heavier ones to transition into Winter. I don't like coats so I use em to layer. The "net-net" of all of this is...YOU NEED A BLAZER n if u feeling like u want to make a presence-add some shoulder pads. Don't worry bout what's in cuz when u stick to what works for u, you'll never be out.

If you've noticed, I've re-ignited the creative content bug where I am even dabbling in making REELS **dun dun duuuun** which has been fun. I am of the modeling era where u just post a standstill pic n keep it moving. I am totally NOT a dancer but i'll runway walk the house zown chile so I'm tryin to see what I'll Tok the Tik about. During June I took a bit of an unintentional hiatus due to family emergencies, lack of enthusiasm n overall a step back from social media. Although I missed engaging wit chall n still clickin in here n there, I must say...I enjoyed the hiatus. Taking a break forced me to be present n focus on what was more important than anything goin on in social media. I still managed to make intentional time to self no matter what was going on becuz it kept me grounded n replenished to continue to make my rounds with everyone else. I do not like when influencing feels like a job n u get caught up in what to post or how to post n if it's well received n alllll of the things that come along with...the job. I don't want this creative space to ever take away the joy of what I love to do-create. My manager, Marci gets on me all the time to step my shyt up cuz I am aware that we influence each other in this contenting world. When yall post things to try n give reviews that peak my interest...I trust yall judgement which means what...imma buy it. I share info for the love of this space n also I don't wanna deprive yall of greatness haha. We are enablers for each other **cue evil laugh** I will say...being on hiatus sorta kinda spoiled me too. It was a way for me to pause n be observant when I did peek in to keep my ear to the streets. Removing some things out ur scope n switching up ur algorithms to positivity makes a major difference on ur well-being (on the flip side I still chuckle at baller alert n em in doses). Yall know I advocate for the life of abundance. Shifting the mindset helps keep the spirit up n u have the extra urge to continue to feed it with doing things or being around what fulfills u in love. Being a content creator n influencer u feel the pressure to keep up with the masses n constantly crank out something cuz "they say" u gotta be consistent n being "consistent" looks like posting 3-4 times a day. Now make no mistake...the analytics do matter in a sense to gauge what's workin...however...what i do NOT wanna do is post to be posting! It's just not authentic to me n the Aquarian that I am...I don't care to ride the wave. What I do care about is posting and sharing what is quality instead of quantity. I do know I'm lazy when it comes to creating n I take full responsibility and accountability to step my shyt up. I am looking to find the balance in that now n making a creating schedule to get on my A game. Nonetheless, don't feel guilty for taking a hiatus-in general. The reset will give u time to re-evaluate n give clarity on direction. Don't be afraid to re-invent urself to shed some old skin during quiet time cuz when u re-emerge you'll be recharged n ready to take on the world after hiatus.

Nope! You're not seeing double nor are you having Deja Vu. This is an extension of the previous post becuz I was on a roll during this photoshoot. If you've seen the earlier post: The Case of the Overthinker you'd know this was coming... Ta Daaaa!!! A quick costume change from the recent post to showcase the drip (do kids still use that haha) cuz I low-key want n need to do a fashion diaries type section; Read Between The Lines . I grabbed this dress off a whim becuz it was a quick one piece I could easily change into n I wanted to test out my JW Anderson Chainlink Sandals after debating on the style to be introduced into this brand. I wanted to show some versatility with the shoes to wear them dressed up or down. Dress: Halogen from Nordstrom Clutch: Goldenbird Boutique Shoes: JW Anderson at Saks I nabbed this dress This is a lightweight tiered dress from Halogen, a brand I shop often for #WerkCouture becuz its simple chic for the office n the sizing is true to size. Leopard print is easy to mix, if ever u wanna dabble in the mixed print world but I wanted to keep it simple to show this can Errand Running Couture. Tiered dresses always give off dainty n the touch of a p-word bow is a classy touch. I am at the point of my life where...I despise having to use energy to break out an iron. I know, I know, I know...lazy right lol-still...I appreciate this dress being wrinkle free after being balled up n my bag-sorry laydeeeeez...I nabbed this a little before Spring time so it's no longer available. Also lets get back to the versatility of this style, yes...the kittens was out purring so just know u can be dressed down n look dressed up with no heels or step it up **pun intended** a notch with a heel even if it's a slight heel, the subtle change makes a difference. No matter how u wear it, YOU make the outfit to ur comfort level. Emphasis on COMFORT! I enjoy loose n flowy dresses that feel like when the wind blows, the dress whispers as it grazes my legs. Becuz I have nothing to prove as it relates to my styling capabilities, I don't feel pressured to wear heels w/dresses n more than likely...if I'm running around you'd see me in this dress with a dressy mule to vans becuz when ur comfy u can let the confidence elevate ANY look. I tend to let my dresses do the work for me ;)

I get a lot of questions on my "How To" and "Go To" as it relates to my dress code. Figured I'd start dropping some looks here for a bit of Fashion Diary-esque. I fell off from my #WerkCouture days so I'll do better n revive it. My style is pretty interchangeable so the stuff I wear to work is the same as I'd wear on the weekends for the most part. This dress however...I would NOT wear to work lol because of the neckline. This piece is from the Gabrielle Union Collection at NY&Co and unfortunately...it's no longer available **whomp whomp** so I'm glad I was able to scoop it becuz it was quite popular. I got this in a size Large (sizing is tricky with her line) n it fits like a glove with a little wiggle room. I am wearing a full body undergarment becuz it's sorta sheer without it n I ain't showing my goodies...for free (jokiiiiiing)! My favorite part is the dramatic sleeve. Whenever I wear black n white...I must have a POP of color and this clutch from Goldenbird Boutique just went with the flow. I always want my LEWK to tell a story; this one is giving a daily stroll through Martha's Vineyard. I wanted to maintain the simple-ness of the dress n no matter how much I may "downplay" an outfit, I'll always throw my Kisha-ness to the mix-hence the pop of color. First of all...can we just pause for the cause n give some appreciation to the curve-uh-nation happening back there...Yowzers!! As someone who's always had a "spongebob" booty **eyeroll** I am loving how the rump is shaping nicely with age (and courtesy of my last hoorah-Toot, lol). Ok back to the regularly scheduled program...accessories DO matter: Sunglasses: Timeless Tina's Earrings: Tanginkia Vieira Bracelet: Dannijo (NM) When wearing black n white esp stripes, I love giving an accent of gold in the mix. The gold just elevates the look n makes it look rich. Now let's move down to the shoes...One dress, Two looks with the switch of kicks. Becuz I play too much, I paired the dress with some polka dot Converse . It keeps the look fun n comfy. This would be my look if I'm out with my girls and the swap would be these: Some sleek black kittens daaaarling. I have no qualms of of purring in kitten heels cuz I have nothing to prove! So yea black heels of whatever height ur comfy with completes this look. Notice how accessories again...matter n something as simple as a shoe change can switch up the look. If ever I was feeling funky, I'd also do a solid colorful shoe too (think Red or Kelly Green). It's all about balance. From brunch to date night in a snap...or click of the heel. This dress will be weekend wear that'll get worn over n over well into the Fall. I love how it fits n gives a peek a boo of shape without being a body con n I don't feel constricted cuz it's still loose enuff to move with u n not have u all stiff. I totally had fun shooting in this look because it was lightweight n had me feeling grown. I am totally for embracing the way we age gracefully n do NOT wanna get mistaken for the younger generation. Yes...I know...black don't crack but I definitely heard my knee snap harder than a Lil Jon song. Up next...Lewk Numma Two cuz I was on a roll utilizing the cool n crisp morning for the holiday. Stay Tuned... Smooches

Ok yall...I'm back on my bully (as the kids say...or is that just NY'ers lol) and getting back into the swing of life. During my hiatus, I actually contemplated when I'd come back...if I'd come back..how I'd come back n just said phk it...GET IN THE GAME!! I shoved myself to get back into what I love doin...creating n writing! For the gorgeous holiday Monday to celebrate Independence Day, I woke up to the alarm (I forgot to confirm w/Alexa to skip) n although I wanted to take advantage of NOT goin to work, my brain kept tapping me to get up n get productive. I ignored this nudge for a solid 30 min but I just could not go back to sleep! The whisper just kept growing louder until I gave in around 0600a. It was just a jolt telling me to go out n take pics for my blog. Was I prepared? No! Did I know what I was gonna wear? No! Did I know where to go? No! This was totally on a whim. As I was doing the typical morning ritual, the idea just came together. I was set to do ONE outfit but before I left out the door, I grabbed a quick change. It was something I could toss on n keep it simple. Did I leave in full glam? Nope! These days it's mascara n brows n being extra is blush for me these days. I say all this to say...Stop Overthinking Shyt. Far too often we wait on the "right moment" and the "right time" n have these grandiose ideas of executing a full production of an idea before we roll it out. The thing is...we gotta start somewhere but the important part is starting! Now for me...I love taking pics n I figure if I'm gonna go for coffee, I might as well kill 2 birds with one stone right lol. To the naked untrained eye...folks be thinking I have a full fledge photographer and well...I don't (I let Mason sleep in). It's just me, my tripod, a self-timer n my iPhone that's like 3 generations behind. I care not if there's an audience or not, I just want the shot. Just think...if not now then when? It's like when people hold on to that infamous dress or clothes for the "special occasion" n by the time that shyt rolls around u either can't fit it or the trend is older than a laminated Blockbuster card. Overthinking doesn't plague me becuz I don't take myself too seriously yet I totally understand becuz it can seep into my own thoughts at times. I also suffer from procrastination so there's that as well. I allow the excuses of "not feeling like it" extend longer than it should n I owe it to myself to get over the hump n make it happen. When I brainstorm the idea alone, I cringe at the process: The outfit Location Time (to include how long the drive to/from) (also how long will it take to take pics...after all I am a ONE WOMAN BAND) Accessories aka which coffee shop Outfit change (if it applies...where u changing and how can u make sure ur shyt ain't crooked) The crowd (I do appreciate those who step aside n pause to let u snap) Pausing to review the shot: Ugh...I blinked...Ugh my bra strap showing...PHK my foot cut off...dmn it. Now that the photoshoot is over...the fun begins :D Reviewing pics Edits Social Media pics The process can go from a half to full day n organizing how u wanna present it can get overwhelming. So again...I totally understand the overthinking of it all-I just don't want it to prevent u from sharing ur greatness with the world. I talk to pre-bloggers who want to get in the game but don't know how or bloggers who get stuck in a rut n don't know how to reignite the spark n I know part of it is the monster to compare. Work with what u have NOW n get it done. Give urself a deadline n stick to it. Although I'm talkin to yall...I'm also speaking to myself. There's an idea for a post I should've executed since Memorial Day **eyeroll to self** Creating this post alone after such a hiatus is an accomplishment in itself. I actually carved out the time n intentionally paused bshytn to do THIS! This is what I love, this is what I wanna share so why do I keep making excuses to deprive yall of these gifts? Overthinking...thinking too much n not doin enuff. My manager, Marci gets me to n gether ALL the time n I appreciate her staying on my azz. We all need someone to keep us accountable. What do u have to lose? Nothing!! I am proud of conquering the overthinking bug that leeches on us at times. On a whim, I was able to snap 2 outfits, 3 pair of shoes, remembered to change my earrings out, enjoy coffee, Kiki'd via my IG stories, did a REEL (cuz I'm no Hype Williams lol) n tossed some captions on FB all before NOON. I will now do a follow up post to give some outfit deets n work on a 3rd post to drop this week-whoa-who am I haha. Whenever that burst of energy hits for u to create LISSSSSEEEEEEEEN. You will be glad u did cuz the real freedom n independence is letting go of fear! Happy 4th of JuFLY yall XOXO Smooches

Oh! Hello Summer...welcome, so glad ya came! I totally cringed at that...**BA HUM BUG** I am begrudgingly opening my arms for summer solstice. As we enjoy the longest day of the year, I am gonna be optimistic I'll get thru this short season in one piece. The idea of humidity n sweltering weather has me hiding. I love the listening to the kids playing outside, water splashes from being poolside n the crisp morning air. Nevermind how the underboobs sweat n thighs chaff from walkin as I dodge the sun rays to get to the nearest shade. Imma still make the best of this summer becuz I always recognize not a lot of folks made it. I have no major plans this summer and taking it day by day. Being in the office more has thrown me off n these past few weeks have been a blur in managing family business. The best part of warmer months is being an early riser. Totally maximizes my day when I catch a glorious sunrise or toss on a caftan for a coffee run before 0800a, come home n straighten up then plan out my day if there's nothing planned. INFLATION IS KICKIN MY AZZ!!! ...but I won't let it defeat me! With the rise of everything being up n hopefully not stuck-I am chillin. Paying off debts n enjoying playdates with friends or luxuriating on my balcony with my plant babies seems to be the safest n most economical place these days! I also recognize The Vid is still present n my score is still set to undefeated. I'm out here wit the record of Mayweather in these streets n feeling like the last man standing lol. Again...my movements have not changed from the beginning of the pandemic n to be honest...it's gonna be what it'll be at this point-I just don't want it on me!! So what shall got goin on for Summer 2022? Who getting flewd out haha...we still doin Hot Girl Summaz or is there a new term for us "aunties" lol. Although u won't catch me at large gatherings like festivals n the likes or when the moon is high; you'll more than likely see me sashaying thru the streets of small towns n gallivanting in the aisles of Nordies :) don't be shy...say Hi. Smooches