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SURPRISSSSEEEE!!! I'm dropping balls early for the week. For some reason, my insomnia is mainly on the weekends and in between hitting the books-here I am. I had a great weekend. Contrary to popular belief...I am pretty chill n a #homebody **gasp** By now, if u follow my IG stories my wknd routine is pretty consistent. My favorite 3 places to catch me EVERY weekend: Starbucks , Wegmans , and Target -make no mistake Nordstrom is part of the routine (depending on the pay period). If I veer off n u don't see the routine up Sat am...mind ya bidness!! This routine has become my weekend kickoff n brings me joy. It's something about my body clock waking me up to catch the sunrise with a fresh attitude to be better than the day before. I pause to catch up on social media, check emails, budget n reflect on the week. I took a slight detour to visit a great friend of mine. You know how u haven't talked to someone in a long time n u just feel like; maybe they need a hug. God put it on my heart to go see her n lay hands beyond the form of a virtual meetup. We played catch up n enjoyed emotional moments. I was glad to have lifted her spirits. In order for me to bring the loving energy into inviting homes; I have to be picky with my presence. I am VERY particular with who I am around n where I am. There are invites I simply need to turn down becuz it's not my scene based on the location, activity or even people involved. Whenever I am in crowded areas I am instantly looking for exits to strategize "just in case" lol but I also want to protect my energy n spirits. I hate to sound witchy but when I am around environments n people that don't align with me, it throws my chakras (lol) off. I want to reflect n give off the vibrancy I take in living a life of wellness. Transfer of energy is real. Being around drama n chaos is draining. Everyday of my life isn't peachy but I am aware of my surroundings enough to know I must be protective of my space n inner peace. It allows me the ability to show up with a positive attitude n clear conscious while being present for those I love. You don't realize how much of yourself u give away interacting n some folks take advantage n leech off u which can stress u the phk out. I guard my time wisely n spend it with folks who absorb good vibes n peace themselves. PAUSING FOR A STYLE BREAK: I am a lover of anything #cateyes and I meeeean how can u not love such a subtle n less dramatic frame haha. These are from Dollskill (mine are sold out n I've linked the black pair) n so daaaarrrrliiiiing. They often have 25% off sales too. These frames were a whopping $22 so I'll be grabbing the sister pair soon. Let's get into the rest of the Weekend Couture...this bag is courtesy of my baby daddies knowing me oh so well n gifting me such a beauty. I love quirky bags n although this dainty pussy...cat is long gone, u can keep ur eyes out n also check out another secret stash I shop called box lunch . If your a long legged honey such as myself (5'8 although I feel like I'm shrinking) then u know the struggle of finding a jumpsuit that fits correctly-ugh! I got this from Target tho n it's a great transition into Spring weather. My toe steppers are courtesy of scouring Nordstrom Rack n coming across an off white pump. Now back to our regularly scheduled program... As I was sayin...I move with the notion of being picky with who I invite into my space n invest time with. Not to sound like I'm some lucky leprechaun n it's a privilege to be around me; I choose to amongst a circle of people to learn from n ayyyyyyyye with. I don't hang wit no bum bytchez n my circle is full of assets n not liabilities (word from KK). So if u see me in these streets don't be afraid to say heeeeey cuz depending on where it is, it's a rare sighting n ya never know when you'll catch the eclipse again.

The joys of motherhood...watching them grow and imagining all the things they'll be in between. It's such an emotional rollercoaster ride. As a mom of two boys, I can only hope as they grow they know mommy loves them n I do the best for them. Becuz I have my oldest being a teen and my youngest little terror tot, I have a different dynamic of the two. They are like my 'before n after' in a sense becuz I have the opportunity to relive Mason all over again with my lil Toot Toot. Times have definitely changed but motherhood is like riding a bike, you'll never forget and the instincts kick in where u left off. Mason as a teen-wow! Rewinding the clock this many years later-wowzers! We often times reminisce on the first in our kids lives. The first steps, first tooth, first word, first haircut, first day in school, first foods, just a whole bunch of firsts that fascinate you becuz u witness their growth during those first moments. I was 25 when I had Mason. Those first flew by and I wasn't in the calming position I am in now becuz I was swept up in the hustle n flow of being a first time mom n holding it down in a single parent household. I relied heavily on family during long shift worked hours. Now here I am 14 yrs later, with my last hoorah chasing after a 2 yr old at my leisure on my own terms. It feels great. This is more than I ever could imagine. I am now in a slower pace of motherhood. I have a 9 to 5 schedule where I'm flexible to have my Toot n be fully attentive. So as I've enjoyed the infamous 'first'... Nobody talks about the last. The last time your kids aren't embarrassed to be seen with you in public, the last time they randomly say I love u, last time they sleep in ur bed, the last time u don't need to accompany them to the bus stop, the last time u held em on ur hip, the last time u changed their diaper, the last time u gave em a bottle, the last time u picked their clothes, the last time they fell asleep on ur chest...aaaah yes. First are etched in our memories but those Lasts are often forgotten yet just as important. So here I am...juggling in between 2 different generation of kids where my oldest is in first place with his lasts. Yes, my youngest has refreshed my first but he's also catching up wit some lasts. Funny how time flies right...I take all this in. Every chance I get to see him it feels like he's morphed into the next step of me adding on to the list of lasts. It's honestly-bittersweet. I can only hope my boys both grow old til life comes full circle and they're able to witness my last n know that everything in between was led with love in its purest form-that'll be the first.

Tis the season to participate in Lent n give up something for 40 days to signify Jesus's fasting. I've only participated in Ash Wednesday once n it felt weird with someone rubbing dry ashes on my forehead...also note I am not heavily religious to claim nothing but a higher power that guides me so there's that. But I do make slight attempts to "give up" something around the season. Soooo what am I gonna sacrifice? I will be giving up on NOT giving up. Often times as a procrastinator, the hardest part for me is just starting whether it relates to school, work, exercise...yea all avenues pretty much. I am trying to find a balance with time n management of-to maintain some order with a schedule. I am pretty routine throughout the week n don't start my day without making my bed before moving on to grooming. If you follow me on #instagram then u know I am pretty consistent with how I start my weekends n the errands ran before being IN the house a little after noon. Sacrificing something for any amount of time is tough n u can easily feel defeated if u don't make it to the end of ur goal. I am determined in not giving up this season. I've been pretty good on track with posting CONSISTENTLY on my blog dropping balls once a week. That alone makes me smile. Eeeeerrrr uuuuh yea **scratches my head n looks away** now if I can only get ON IT n turn in this late azz assignment; nonetheless...I have completed 2 out of 5 classes thus far (my 3rd one starts today) for Spring Semester and I rocked out 4 out of 6 cert classes for a Women's Leadership Certificate from Cornell University. I will not be hard on myself becuz clearly I ain't slacking tooooo bad but yet I know I can do better. I love having some space to grow n giving the current times; I take a deep breather n give myself grace. Once I get a good groove goin though...I be unstoppable n be all in. So for Lent; no I'm not giving up meat (I'm too loyal to chicken) n not giving up chocolate (in order to avoid jail) and I dmnnnnn sure ain't NOT getting #Starbucks or shopping #Nordstrom for no 40 days now....oh nah...God knows my heart. But I'm definitely not giving up on giving up-let me start there. Do you participate in Lent? What do you give up? Do you go the full 40 days? What have u learned at the end of the sacrifice?

My favorite color is RED. It's a shade of power and strength. I love how demure the shade of red can be becuz it's the perfect pop to anything. You can wear all black for instance n accessorize with anything red and ur eyes instantly go to the pop. Red can be discreet or full blown "Bytch u see me" and I've always appreciated the versatility of it all. It was also a taboo color I wasn't able to enjoy as a kid. I can remember like it was yesterday **cue harp strings and gaze into the clouds to reminisce** I was FOUR and we lived in California. My mom had always painted my nails (yes I been on prissy) in pink which is prolly while it's my 2nd favorite shade. One day I asked her for red nails and she told me no becuz I wasn't "old enough" and it was for prostitutes. Stupid n young me not realizing what a prostitute was said with such glee "I wanna be a prostitute"n held my hands out. She chuckled n continued saying no even though...come to think of it, she was wearing red nails becuz I meeeean how else would I have noticed it-hmm?!! Anyhoo, that moment stuck with me and I grew up admiring red with restrictions. I was able to wear it everywhere except my nails. My mother has since passed and I still felt a hold to NOT wear red nails into my adulthood. I wore every shade around it and close to it but never a full on RED! I felt like it would be defying her in some way if I did-crazy right! I was stuck being that 4 yr old who yearned to be a prostitute lol. Every time I'd build myself up the courage, I never could pull the trigger so I stuck with my default of pinks. Everything in my life centered around my favorite color. Red decor was splashed around my home, I always loved a red kitchen and when I seen the perfect plant holder it was meant for me. Fun Fack: Anything shiny n red reminds me of Klymaxx. I named my peace lily after one of my favorite members: Bernadette Cooper. A magical moment happened where it started to hit me: LORDIE IM 40 and if ever there were a time to be a prostitute it's NOW!! I came across some Inspo which confirmed my leap of faith to take. I siced myself up to take the plunge. It just felt right-like wow...the time has finally come. I know it sounds so dramatic right...like duuuuh u could've BEEN did this but it just didn't sit right in my "Spurr-Ret" (spirit). Note, I also felt this way with red lips but it was easier for me to transition into wearing that well after 21. MAMA I MADE IT!!!! I confidently walked in n sat down in #SalonCouture requesting the red of all reds. I love candy apple reds. I knew I wanted influential reds that made me think of: Cameo's cup (Owwww!!), Eddie Murphy "Delirious" jacket, my dream car of when dope boys drove the Mercedes coupe circa 1990's wit the car phone...aaaah yes gimme Santa's cheeks red, Ronald McDonald wig red and VOILA!!!! I loooove it. I have officially arrived. I feel so accomplished n complete like I've been made whole venturing into red nails. Awwwww shyt!! Y'all can't tell me nothing noooow.. Surprisingly, after I shared my story on my #instagram I was shocked to learn many others shared the same childhood trauma's growing up not being able to wear such a color that signified adultness. I must say...holding out did give me something to look forward to so kudos to mom. The Power of Red gives me confidence and makes me stand tall. Wearing red lipstick even makes me feel sexy (although I stay away cuz of the maintenance lol) and GROWN. What about chew, is there a "forbidden" shade u grew up avoiding becuz yo mama said...and how did it feel to break the chains n go for it? What is your power color and how does it make YOU feel, I wanna know.

This post was totally random as it was NOT the intended topic for the week, yet this has been lingering since Christmas. Let me preface by saying...for the last year leading up to my 40th, I've had reflecting instances from full circle moments to being smacked with childhood traumas that re-surface by way of my actions or reactions. Because these bruise's have been such a way of life for so long, it never occurred to me they'd affect loved ones and how they handle me in the present. If don't worry bout it, I'll get it myself was a person, it would surely be me! I am a gift giver. I loooove curating gifts and it makes me feel good when they receive them. I've never been one for fan fare when it comes to celebrating me during holidays. Contrary to what u perceive me to be-I'm not one press for the spotlight n quite shy **shocker** With that being said...I get what I want myself. If I see something while out n about, I don't wait to add it for a Xmas or Bday list, I just grab it whether on sight or eventually. I don't ask anyone for anything, it's never been my thang! When someone surprises me with a gift, I am always open to receiving my blessings. So imagine my surprise when....I was told I am hard to shop and surprise becuz I get everything myself n it doesn't allow the person to treat me and express their love with giving me gifts. I really didn't think anything of it but as the message marinated it hit me: I do not know how to ACCEPT N RECEIVE! Being independent for so long has crippled me with allowing others to love on me in that way of showering me with gifts. Fun Fact : I've never been a "daddy's girl" n I love my dad but our relationship is quite neutral to say the least. If in life I'd be in a bind, he would NEVER be the first person I'd call becuz I don't want help to come with attachments (i.e. tossed in my face later) and I don't want to receive gifts with feelings of obligations (i.e. return the favor). The "strong friend" is me and I will always say "I'm ok", it's only those that know me on an intimate level to know different n act accordingly. The turning point was realizing on Xmas "Wow, he's right" as I held the mirror to my face n unraveled to find the why while excitingly receiving my #applewatch :) Since then I've been open to ACCEPT N RECEIVE without guilt or hesitation. For my birthday, my bestie gifted me with a spa day and I allowed everyone else who gift'd me, love on me. It was VERY hard for me. The tangible isn't important yet the value of the act very much is n THAT is what I'm learning to accept. I am grateful n thankful for them n yet they don't even realize the lessons they've taught me. Each day I wake up is a day to better myself. I am untangling years of 'no' to trade with 'yes' so bear with me. Thanx for coming to my Ted Tawk!

Here Ye!! Here Ye!! Bad Bytch Loading...oh wait...I've arrived daaaarliiiing. On January 26th, my parents welcomed me into their loving arms and VOILA: Kisha Marie. I stand before u now a full blown woman stepping into a new realm of life after leaving my 30's behind. This is so surreal to me. I've been feeling different leading up to for months now (refer to Lordie Im FoTee Series). It's a good feeling type different tho. It's a magical feeling like when u feel freshly exfoliated n moisturized with dead skin washed away. I spent my day enjoying a Spa Day and lounging with my favorite men in my life-ALL my boys! I'm a simple gal but don't think for a second I'm not slightly upset I didn't enjoy it as planned: Spa Retreat somewhere in Arizona. Yet, I'm grateful. I am here to see 40 and healthy with sound mind n body. I am stepping into a whole new land of womanhood but I'll elaborate on this another post. I wanted to rock a power color. RED!! Red has always been my favorite color. It's a classic shade n stands out yet can be toned down to subtly. I am overwhelmed by the love n support u guys have shown me to celebrate my birthday. This feels like a milestone number for me. I reflect on my 20's n 30's with trials n errors (many errors...oh soooo many) n I regret none. They've shaped me into the woman u see before u today. My heart is full with messages of love and tips from my "elders" lol on what to look forward to. THANK YOU ALL for the many laughs, DM's, comments n engagements to enjoy my crazy. It hasn't really sank in that I have more time behind me than realized. Like OMG...I'm Fo' Teeeeee. This shyt is crazy....I'm still floating...let me marinate in this moment before I do a post birthday reflection cuz I'm expecting to wake up back into simpler times of childhood before adulting by chance n maybe this is all just a dream n this moment is a premonition of some sorts. Yeaaaa that's right...this a flash forward vision right **starts to sweat** I'm gonna wake up n be back to where it all started...in the womb where I had noooo idea of what's to come of my life n no expectations of nothing...yea that's it. Happy Birthday to meeee!!!

We rung in the New Year 2020 with a road trip to Nashville, TN after I had been wanting to go for quite some time. My parents were in town from overseas and off a whim it was like...ok let's do it. The first half of this trip can be found here . We initially stopped in Knoxville which was about 3 hrs away n we were only there long enuff to get a glimpse of the quaint town. I am actually getting excited just thinking bout the trip n resurrecting memories with pics. Despite how 2020 went...again...I can't complain about my year at all. My Sole purpose **pun intended** was for my search of cowboy boots. Whenever I watched movies of people partying in Nashville, they always did line dances in funky boots. Shopping for the perfect pair of boots proven to be a challenge. I was so overwhelmed with the many options Nashville has to offer, I had to pause and not be in such a rush. I wanted the perfect pair of boots to find me! Now me n my stepma can shop for hours on end n go off adrenaline but we had the guys in tow which meant they were left dragging from store to store unamused by my excitement to hunt for my boots. I had to focus-focus-focus so my boots could find me! We had no success the first night then set our sights on continuing the search at Opry Mills n it was there my true loves were found: Just know these boots were truly LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT!! If "I just knew u were the one" was boots-THIS IS IT!! I toggled on them becuz of the price tag but I swear it was meant to fit me n only me. There was only ONE pair of these inside Boot Barn n I had to contemplate funds I didn't plan on spending. I walked over to another nearby shop, Boot Factory in which I found ANOTHER pair. Clearly, I'm feeling like a polygamist at this point becuz I am in love with 2 diff boots n they are definitely in love with me. My dad put the battery in my back talmbout "get both" but he must've forgotten my salary is BENEATH his **le sigh** Long story short...my daddy blessed me with BOTH!!! And now I am excited to present to y'all my Bae's #BaeBoots lol. Surprisingly, we've celebrated our year anniversary this month and with many more to come... I've been keeping these hidden from y'all so my apologies. I never gave them a proper reveal with a photoshoot until now. I knew when picking boots I didn't want anything plain. I didn't come all that way to leave with anything less than spectacular. They both represent my personality and love for color n design. I have the best of both worlds. I paired these with an outfit making Bae Boots the main attraction becuz I mean...how can they not. Next post to follow will show how these babies shine!!

We are coming up on our quarantine-versary! This March will be a whole year since the pandemic forced us to be working from home. I am NOT complaining. I had already silently been wanting more of a teleworking lifestyle to get a break from the Mon-Fri hustle n bustle which had me looking forward to holidays for an extended weekend. Well, Well, Well...be careful what chew ask for. With #WerkCouture at a standstill n cobwebs growing in the closet, I grew leery on when if ever I'd get to play dress up again n be in the office. Alas, if only for a moment...I was able to make rare appearances in the office during the Fall Season. One of my favorites to wear...anything #sweaterdress for the win!! It's quick to toss on n easy to accessorize. The neon trench, orange sweater dress n leopard slingback are from ASOS a few Spring's ago. My camo scarf is from ICON Fashion boutique .Anything quick to save me time in the am is my go-to n cozy sweater dresses are like my onesies. For the 2nd look, this dress n boots is from #Nordstrom which I grabbed last Spring on sale. Next best thing for the boots are here . If u noticed a trend here...it would be the mixing of prints. Leopard n Camo is easy one for me n perfect to try as a beginner becuz either of the 2 pair well with just about anything. They are also easy transitions into Spring season n the trick to accessorizing is keeping it simple with adding a pop of SOMETHING!! I am into mixed prints so the bold color of the dress paired perfect with the camo scarf n leopard combo. The trench was the contrast needed to tie it all together. What's ur favorite go to look for a quick look n am I the only one who misses playing dress up in the office?

Welcome to 2021. Congrats-you made it. Last year was a doozy eh so if u survived that u can survive anything. These last few weeks have been such a blur. Winter Solstice offered a clean slate then we got our super powers n slid into Christmas. That shyt felt weird. I was NOT in the holiday mood. I managed to put my tree up but barely decorated. I feel like my seasonal plants that go dormant in the winter n slow down. I've been chillin during winter break from school becuz I'll be back on the grind in a few wks wit a full load **cue forehead sweats** Reflecting on 2020, it honestly wasn't bad for me. I was able to secure a new job and promotion so my lifestyle hasn't skipped a beat. I am grateful. During a year of taking so many losses and setbacks, we've showed resiliency. We were all confused during lockdown not knowing how long we'd be fighting this covid-ness n suffered through cancelled vacations for isolations. To be honest...I've moved pretty consistent throughout the whole ordeal. My movements are very limited: Starbucks, Wegmans, Target or if I'm feeling adventurous plant shopping. Nordstrom is also my place of refuge to getaway but the shopping experience in itself just isn't the same. As much as I like online shopping, I am an avid #windowshopper and I prefer to go IN stores to see clothes in person so I can try on in real time then leisurely walk through the malls for a few hours, grab lunch n be home! The movie's being shutdown saddened me too. I would plan a full ditch day from work to include pampering myself with shopping n movies so my social solo dating life has taken a nosedive lol. Santa was good to me! It's always hard shopping for me becuz I treat myself well throughout the year and I grab what I want when I want it. This is why I prefer gift cards to my favorite places to shop :D As I've previously stated, I was not in the xmas mood but I tend to force myself for the sake of my kids. Well...Mason is a tad older so his spirit is meh n he doesn't like me to decorate til after his bday which is around Thanxgiving. I would like one good year where I winter wonderland my place to get me in the mood especially with my Little Toot Toot getting older. I gathered some energy for family pics in the infamous red n black #lumberjack couture pj sets. Presenting the lovely slide of our family photos: A Family that plaids together, is glad together The photoshoot I envisioned in my head did not play out in reality trying to wrangle a moody teen to at least ACT like he can crack a smile and a rambunctious toddler who doesn't give a shyt what's goin on yet more focused on the props! As imperfectly perfect as they are...I loved the candid flix...aaaaah #BlackLove Now that we've survived the year, do you make New Yearssss resolutions? I like having a theme for the year which makes it fun. In previous years: 2018: Year of Elevation 2019: Year of Inspiration 2020: Year of Motivation If last year taught me nothing else...the world owes me nothing so don't expect shyt. I want to go into this year with no expectations so it leaves me with no disappointments. This doesn't mean I won't set goals n seek or look forward to the many blessings ahead but I kinda wanna float through this year and be "surprised" with how it turns out. I am not gonna beat myself up over missed marks n just Que Sera Sera my way this go round. I hope this year brings you all everything u desire n incorporate protecting ur peace to maintain sanity. I am hopeful this year will be even greater than last year but **cue theme** we shall see. Happy New Year!!!!

The final countdown is officially ON. I am a whole azz month away from saying goodbye to my 30's n stepping into my 40's. This is where my brain shifts into a different mindset on all aspects of my life. Strategic planning n moving with intentions is critical. Shyt seemed so far away when I was fresh outta HS then BAM-20 yr HS Reunion **cue crackling bones** I remind my younger siblings often...30 comes at chew fast. Next thing u know...u turn into ur parents n think everything is "too loud" lol. You date urself n leak ur age with the "good ol' days" reminisces n rant on the dumb things "kids" (which refer to anyone 35 n under) do or think they've invented not realizing we done been there n done that. I've always been quite chill. Never been one into the socialite scene so my plans for turning 40 will align with just that. I will be celebrating this milestone moment-lowkey! I'm not big on celebrations for my bday so I don't want fanfares. SURPRISE!!! I don't like the attention **gasp** I wanna be locked away in an undisclosed location indulging in spa services enjoying a quiet solo moment with me n my thoughts. I'm looking forward to working towards set goals I foresee for myself in the future: Bucket list type shyt, Health, Retirement but more importantly enjoying living n doin shyt scared :D

If it's one thing about me-I am a #wegmans whoooore!! My wknd routine is pretty consistent and u will ALWAYS find me shopping here EVERY week. I've been a faithful member since they've arrived about 5 yrs ago or so and there's no other place I'd rather be. Some people consider it expensive but I see it as...organized, comforting, reasonable and well lit (pun intended-i meeeean have u ever NOT enjoyed their playlist). I go bright n early to cruise each aisle. I can get lost in there for hours and stumble upon new finds of snacks to try out but the options between organic and the ready to go meals are gourmet n delish!! Nonetheless, this post isn't about me trying to sell u on elevating your grocery list by visiting Wegmans. It's about stepping out and into ur glory of goodness by any means necessary. These iconic heels were reviewed here and I use every opportunity to rock them accordingly. The designer of this infamous shoe, Keeyahri , recently did an #IGlive chatting on the idea behind the designs of her shoes and coming up w/future designs to cater to consumers who opt for more casual wear. Then she said these heels were more of a party shoe and how nobody would wear them to the grocery store.... CHALLENGE ACCEPTED!!!! I was shocked like wayment...is nobody as extra as iiiiiii to dress up n get siddity just becuuuuuuz??? I do not believe in saving outfits for "special occasions" becuz I dress how I feel n there's no better time than NOW to be overdressed as you please. My favorite part of going to work was dressing up according to my mood for the day. My #WerkCouture consisted of fascinators n sequins on any random day. Getting lavishly dressed to go to the grocery store would be no different. With the current lockdowns happening, what the hell else are u waiting for? So I decided to strut into my neighborhood Wegmans in the finest of caftans which I also lounge in at home n set up my tripodographer (since Mason ditched me) n enjoy a morning photoshoot in the aisles of grocer-rez (cuz im fancy). While I know it maybe a bit over the top picking produce in this attire, I wanted to show y'all that YES it can be done-more often!! I liiiiiive for anything dramatic n extra. When I do random shoots off the solo there's a #BadBytch playlist in my head to sice me. I get stares n glares but I don't care. I give them a show honey!! I challenge myself to do the most unordinary shyt n it brings me joy. Try it-You'll love it here. The next time u wanna boost ur mood, get dolled up n hit the grocery store for ur next run-I WANNA SEEEEEE, tag me in all the supermark-kay couture.

EEEK!! In exactly 2 more months...TWO **bites nails** I will be leaving my 30's behind n hitting Fo'Tee. I am excited the closer the calendar dates come to it becuz I am feeling the "change" happening n the hotness finding it's place. I am not quite sure what to be expecting with this aging process but I can attest to feeling my teeth shift n knees crackin which is scary but I'm still tickin (with a stretch or 2 lol). I am honestly at the point of no return when it comes to #IDGAF and I mean that in the most sincere way as possible. There are two places I am not going with u-back n forth!! I've always been known to have a nonchalant type of attitude n I think that's been to guard the "crazy" from coming out. I don't tend to give folks that kinda power over me to take me close to 10 but there also isn't much to rowl me up. I love a healthy debate but I'm not going to use energy to explain something you can't understand as it pertains to my lifestyle n how I move or why I do what I do. There is a certain confidence which has been built over the course of my life span that makes me feel taller with every step becuz I take pride in the woman I am today n I sleep well at night knowing I do right by people because I have a good heart. Life is Grand :)