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Navy Notes & Tiffany Whispers I normally have a theme in mind before I get in the chair or at least try to but this one was on a whim. My nail appointments fall towards the end of the month so Feb bout over and I didn't wanna do the cliche red. Rolling into March, I didn't wanna do the St. Patty's infamous green and I had already brung in the new year with my signature pink. Courtesy of The Beauty Look Book Well...I'd been eyeballing the most recent Chanel Denim Collection. I said weeks ago, I wanted to incorporate more Navy into my wardbrobe as an alternative to Black so the blues was just coming more to the forefront as inspo. I gave Sharisse free range. This set feels like a quiet nod to the cool-girl grit of Rihanna during her ANTI era, all smoke and sapphire confidence, brushed up against the polished whisper of Tiffany & Co. blue. Denim Dreams courtesy of the Chanel Denim Collection, but distilled into ten tiny canvases. Navy brought the mood. Tiffany brought the manners n kept it dainty. And those signature swirls on your left hand sealed it with that unmistakable prissy stamp. Nothing cliché, nothing predictable. Just instinct, intuition, and a little sparkle of audacity as the editor-in-chief-Out of the blue, indeed!! Consider this your reminder that sometimes the best ideas percolate when you stop forcing the flavor. I didn’t chase a trend, I trusted the brew. Stirred with instinct, topped with a little shimmer… and served bold with a wink ☕💙

A 28-Day Practice in Intention, Presence, and Care If you are new here...Welcome. I've decided to commit to 28 days of small and intentional acts of love. The rules and ideas are here . I've been on a roll this month n looking forward to continuing to show up for myself to recaliberate some consistency wit content. At this point, I can cut the small chatter. Without further ado... Recap of Day 20: Celebrate something ordinary Day 21 Declutter one small space with care. For Day 21, I chose to declutter my coffee space, the small but sacred corner that holds my Nespresso and, quite honestly, my morning sanity. It’s amazing how quickly that area can collect pods and the odds and ends of a busy week. So I tend to clear it slowly, wiping each surface with intention, refilling my jar capsules like they were little jewels instead of caffeine essentials. This space is where my days begin, where ideas are stirred awake and moods are softened before the world gets loud. Caring for it felt less like cleaning and more like tending to an altar. When the space is calm, I am too. I love being my own barista! — Kisha No E keeping my corner clean and my cup full… one polished pour at a time ☕😉

A 28-Day Practice in Intention, Presence, and Care If you are new here...Welcome. I've decided to commit to 28 days of small and intentional acts of love. The rules and ideas are here . I've been on a roll this month n looking forward to continuing to show up for myself to recaliberate some consistency wit content. At this point, I can cut the small chatter. Without further ado... Recap of Day 19: Revisit a place, song, or ritual you love Day 20 Celebrate something ordinary. For Day 20, I’m celebrating something ordinary that feels quietly extraordinary: laughter. The morning began with nasty rain which caused my commute to be filled with yawns. I wanted so much to just be IN the bed to surrender to the mood of it all. But when I logged into the office, I chose to smile. Not simply out of gratitude for employment, but because even on a heavy day, I can still generate light. A visitor mentioned he could tell I’m the life of the party, and while I laughed it off, it stayed with me. In a season where the world feels tense and smiles feel rationed, the ability to laugh freely is no small thing. It's hard for folks to even crack a smile and here I am touched with the joy of chuckling. Make no mistake-it’s resilience. And sometimes the most radical celebration is allowing yourself to cackle anyway. — Kisha No E laughing through the drizzle and letting joy percolate anyway ☕✨

A 28-Day Practice in Intention, Presence, and Care If you are new here...Welcome. I've decided to commit to 28 days of small and intentional acts of love. The rules and ideas are here . I've been on a roll this month n looking forward to continuing to show up for myself to recaliberate some consistency wit content. At this point, I can cut the small chatter. Without further ado... Recap of Day 18: Create something without sharing it. Day 19 Revisit a place, song, or ritual you love For Day 19, the place I revisit isn’t a street or a house. It's my childhood when I play songs from the 80's. It's so nostalgic and the first tune instantly takes me back to when life was innocent and I was naive to the world ahead. I remember being in the passenger seat as a kid on the way home from Grandma's house at night listening to the radio. Riding from NW to SE felt like hours but I would dose off and semi-hear 🎶 funny-how-time-flies-when-your having fun and by the time I'd feel we were home by the turn into the parking lot; I woke up to Smooth Operator . To this day, I associate Sade's music with sleep, lol. I only heard it at night n it always made me yawn. I love revisiting those days especially as it associates with music because I get lost in my playlist while my memory of what was is pretty much all I have of my mom, of my grandma's house, of my aunt taking me with her to the corner store, of childhood friends and just being a kid. Music is the only place where all of them still gather at once. — Kisha No E rewinding gently and letting the memories slow brew ☕✨

A 28-Day Practice in Intention, Presence, and Care If you are new here...Welcome. I've decided to commit to 28 days of small and intentional acts of love. The rules and ideas are here . I've been on a roll this month n looking forward to continuing to show up for myself to recaliberate some consistency wit content. At this point, I can cut the small chatter. Without further ado... Recap of Day 17: Choose presence over productivity for one hour Day 18 Create something without sharing it Nevermind I've created vids n taken pics that have been anxiously awaiting on seeing the light of day from as far as...2017, lol. I've been hiding behind blogging via writing and peeked out to actually chat via IG stories. All of those have been seeds planted to lead me to...well... Yall know I been talkin bout it for a minute. I've been nervous to toss it out there. I've decided to not advertise it on any of my socials because I wanna organically grow separate from where I've been. If by chance the algorithms lead you the way...I hope you enjoy and stay a while. There's something in starting from scratch and allowing it to quietly blossom. I wanna pour into this project differently without the pressure of so many eyes on it regardless of the trial n error. Someone asked "what's it about?" Err Uh. I don't have a solid answer. I just wanna START n let the creative juices flow as I frolic down the road to wherever it'll land. I'm excited to see how the first one differs from the last to indicate how I'll get better with time. -Kisha No E still unfolding, still intentional, and poured just right for the moment ☕✨

A 28-Day Practice in Intention, Presence, and Care If you are new here...Welcome. I've decided to commit to 28 days of small and intentional acts of love. The rules and ideas are here . I've been on a roll this month n looking forward to continuing to show up for myself to recaliberate some consistency wit content. At this point, I can cut the small chatter. Without further ado... Recap of Day 16: Step outside and notice five details you usually miss. Day 17 Choose presence over productivity for one hour My morning ritual : I choose to do it beautifully by getting up an extra hour a day for a jumpstart. Not extravagantly. Not performatively. Just beautifully. The way I ease into my slow mornings is proof that presentation shifts posture. The good robe or caftan every time starts the day. The mug of choice chosen intentionally as the first hard choice of the day is...what am I in the mood for? The blinds are wide open to let the light stretch across the floor before I do. I love the sunrise and morning glow. When I treat the ordinary with care, the results follow suit. My thoughts feel more organized when I sit still, my mood steadier with jazz in the background, my direction clearer after taking a glance at my planner. Beauty, when applied intentionally, sets the tone before the world ever gets a say. Gentle Reminder: that how I begin often determines how I carry the day. The presence of just being for an hour-game changer n the standard has been set with this practice...best served warm n snuggled. — Kisha No E setting the tone gently and letting it steep into something lovely ☕✨

What the Snake refined, the Horse will release. The rhythm of the Chinese New Year shifts with each zodiac, and the transition from Snake to Horse feels less like a calendar change and more like a wardrobe transformation. The Snake year is about strategy, intuition, and quiet power. It favors discernment over noise, wisdom over impulse, the kind of confidence that does not beg to be seen because it already knows. And if I audit myself honestly, I wore that energy well and here's how I owned it: Shed, Shine & Strike . I took calculated risks last year. With my platform, I've refined my editorial voice, and said yes to opportunities that once intimidated me. I overcame the fear of being too visible by becoming more intentional about how I show up without the pressures of OMG who's watching. I shed outdated doubts esp when it came to comparison, streamlined my focus, and trusted my instincts in rooms that once felt larger than me. And let's not forget-I checked off learning Pilates and Salsa off the bucket list. The Snake taught me to move with precision and to strike when it mattered. Now let's step into the Year of the Horse so the tempo can change. The Horse in the Chinese zodiac represents freedom, stamina, charisma, independence, and bold forward motion filled with ambition. I plan to thrive in open spaces and be known for chasing possibility with unapologetic energy. If the Snake sharpened my instincts, the Horse is stretching my ambition. This is the year of momentum, of expanding beyond careful calculation into courageous action. The foundation has been built, you've seen how far I've come with the click of the back button. The confidence has been tested. Now we run. I plan to carry the wisdom of the Snake into the daring of the Horse, pairing strategy with speed, grace with grit. I feel this will be the year of some fast moving energy and the encouragement to take the initiative vs waiting on permission. Consider this my official declaration that we are no longer circling the track. We are claiming it. What else you got to lose? Here is to shedding what has restrained us, saddling up for what excites us, and brewing a year so bold it practically gallops off the page. Stay spirited, stay strategic, and giddy up! Let’s stir it strong and sip it with intention. ☕🐎

A 28-Day Practice in Intention, Presence, and Care If you are new here...Welcome. I've decided to commit to 28 days of small and intentional acts of love. The rules and ideas are here . I've been on a roll this month n looking forward to continuing to show up for myself to recaliberate some consistency wit content. At this point, I can cut the small chatter. Without further ado... Recap of Day 15: Support a local business intentionally. Day 16 Step outside and notice five details you usually miss. The weather has been warming up and melting the remnants of the snowstorm a few weeks ago. I've been dog sitting and took a longer walk than usual to recognize the air is different with Spring nearby. While stepping outside and I'm realizing the world has been quietly changing without asking for applause. Here are five details coming into focus as winter loosens its grip: The sound of melting: Not dramatic, just steady, even with the rain. The soft drip from rooftops, the squish beneath your shoes. Snow doesn’t leave loudly. It exhales. The shift in air : It's still cool, but no longer blistering cold. The air feels rounder, gentler. You don’t brace against it. You breathe into it. The way light lingers: Evening stretches itself just a little longer. The sun doesn’t rush offstage. It hovers, golden and unbothered. Pretty soon, it'll be bright pass 5p. The dog’s pace: Ashton loves to roam free at the nearby lake. More curious. More eager. As if even he can sense something is blooming beneath the surface. My shoulders: Lower. Softer. Less armored than they were a few weeks ago fighting off 10 degrees just to walk from my bldg to the car. Winter has a way of tightening us. Spring invites release. — Kisha No E stepping lighter, breathing deeper, and letting the season slowly steep ☕✨

A 28-Day Practice in Intention, Presence, and Care If you are new here...welcome. I've decided to commit to 28 days of small and intentional acts of love. The rules and ideas are here . I've been on a roll this month n looking forward to continuing to show up for myself to recaliberate some consistency wit content. At this point, I can cut the small chatter. Without further ado... Recap of Day 14: Forgive a small thing and release it fully . Day 15 Support a local business intentionally. Let me tell yall how well the universe reacts n gives you what you been asking for in the most subtle yet noticeable way. I used to get spa days only on my birthday. Last year, I made the commitment to do them quarterly. When I did my December Spa Day to complete the quarters as promised, I said...I should do these once a month. I did my annual birthday one last month and honestly forgot I made the declaration n didn't plan for Feb. Well, yesterday before my hot stone pedi, I received a random text about a FLASH SALE on a 60 min massage n sauna session from Bear River Spa & Yoga that was too good to pass up. I thought it was a scam/spam until I confirmed with the front desk it was real. I'd never been there. I have no idea how they found me but I am grateful. I was able to enjoy a spa day for a fraction of what I normally pay and enjoyed a wonderful experience clearly meant just for me. This has truly been the perfect weekend of love for the Valentine's holiday. I've been able to crush on myself and have some spontaneous opportunities come my way and sealing the deal with some savings is chef's kiss. -Kisha No E refilled with clarity, sweetened with grace, and served while it’s still warm ☕✨

A 28-Day Practice in Intention, Presence, and Care If you are new here...welcome. I've decided to commit to 28 days of small and intentional acts of love. The rules and ideas are here . I've been on a roll this month n looking forward to continuing to show up for myself to recaliberate some consistency wit content. At this point, I can cut the small chatter. Without further ado... Recap of Day 13: Express gratitude to someone who rarely hears it. Day 14 Forgive a small thing and release it fully. Circa 2024, I did a Clean Your Mirror post where I did some self-reflection on Resentment . I recognize after letting go, it cleared the way to open opportunities for blessings to pour in. I've seen adopted the same method to practice forgiving more than not. It's so easy to get caught up in get back and being petty-I'm an Aquarius, lol. But I've learned there's a superpower in knowing you can do something but choose the opposite. Not becuz your a punk or you got receipts to back up your argument but I mean, at the end of the day...how will it serve you to move forward? What does it do to your life or prove to be the one who's right? There was an incident with family around Xmas time where I could've chose to be petty to stand my ground but Rickey reminded me...we are blessed in abundance and the argument was one sided. He was right. There's no beef on my end so why hold a grudge when it's not my burden to bear. Since I've chosen the side of love moving forward from that incident...my life has been continuing to flourish. I'm gonna take that as the universe reminding me...I'm doing something right. As long as you know WHO you are and have postured your heart with good intentions, its easier than ever to forgive the small (and big) things in order to release it fully. The results are in and greatness awaits on the side of grass that is greener. Is 50 Cent entertaining by how he Draws 4 on they azz, lol...sure but I sleep well at night doing the right thing n maintaining my own sanity. Ain't no tit for tat-Forgiveness! -Kisha No E measured in grace, poured with intention, and still warm at the rim ☕✨

There's still grounds for celebration when your Solo-tine on Valentine's. Today is the day of love. True Love. The roses are double the price. The restaurants are fully booked. The lobster at the grocery stores are gone. The chocolates n teddy bears are snatched up. You scroll n see all these beautiful gestures of love from those coupled up and showing off their gifts and the marathon of RomCom's are hard to avoid. Here I am...single! Listen, before the violins start tuning up and the "pity pouts" commence, let me set the record straight: Don’t cry for me, Argentina. Seriously. Save those tears for a moving scene from The Notebook or a tragic lack of sweetness from your latte order. I am not just "fine"—I am currently in a committed, whirlwind romance with myself and a peace of mind. Trust me, the perks are incredible, lol. What are my plans for the day? A whole latte me **Badum Tsss** Yall know the morning will start off with a coffee date. Table for One: Me, Myself and Mocha. I treasure these sacred sips while my Saturday playlist tickles my ear or I'm catching up on podcasts and YT vids. Then I'm getting a hot stone pedicure at a nearby spa-I love a good foot rub to make my "sole" sing with a complimentary neck massage. For lunch, I'm going to enjoy a decadent meal from my favorite spot in Old Town Manassas; Voodoo Brothers with the delightful anticipation of leftovers. Now picture it: Sicily, 1922...the evening winds down and this is where it gets sexy. I peel off clothes from the day and slip into something more...well ya know...comfy. The magic is about to go down as I do what I'm told by Teddy Pendergrass. I must not be moving fast enough becuz after the candle is lit, I hear his voice elevate as he yells "TURN EM OFF". I am now in the VIP lounge with this date on the couch. My plus one you ask? Mmmm wouldn't you like to know **wink** ok, ok, ok...Wegman's seasonal chocolate strawberries. Dubai Chocolate, Biscoff, White Chocolate join the party. Whew...talk about free love, it's getting kinky in here, lol. After a sweet romp, I am draaaained. Now it's time for the nightcap which is such a toss up. Do I fall asleep to Golden Girls or American Greed? It's a whimsical blend of " Thank you for being a friend " or " Thank you for not embezzling my feelings ". What a day! AND THAT my Darliiiings is what crushing on yourself looks like. It's not a consolation prize. It’s quiet, it’s delightful, and there is zero chance of an argument over who gets the remote. How to Date Yourself for Solo-tine's Day (The Self-Crush Club) The "Main Character" Meal: Visit ur favorite spot n order the fancy appetizer. Sensory Indulgence: Treat ur body to that luxe spa treatment you’ve been eyeing. Curated Comfort: Don the satin teddy and embrace the snacks. The Gift of No Expectations: Ya already know ur goin' to love it becuz YOU picked it. The Solo Soundtrack: Put on your favorite "guilty pleasure" playlist and dance like the neighbors aren't watching (even if they are). Stay brewed to perfection and never settle for a weak blend. After all, life is too short for bad coffee—and boring dates! ☕️😉

Small in Scale, Heavy on Intention Ok so BOOM!! Here I am doing a pickup at where else? Nordies DUH!! And so, I'm trying to avoid perusing so much becuz I hate when something catches my eye and I gotta swing the price tag around to contemplate whether I'm gonna skip a meal or not. I'm gliding pass the accessories section n see some micro bags danglin in my peripherial. I pause n move in for a closer look. Oh! These are cute-I don't linger longer than I need to in order to stay focused. I'm not big on micro bags **no pun intended** but I admire the love yall have for them. But every so often, one earns its place by pure charm alone. Enter these beauties: Coach leather and gold metal Tabby bag charms. Petite, polished, and well made. Offered in black, chalk (off white), and peony, this trio proves that scale has nothing to do with impact. While the black leans timeless and chic, it was peony that caught me in its quiet orbit. There’s something truly mauve-a-lous about this muted pink. A neutral with personality. Soft, but never shy. It invites a second glance without demanding it. The craftsmanship seals the deal. I only intended on the leather charm but after sleeping on it a few days, I also discovered the gold charm and knew I wanted to pair them together to extend the look. Like...a mini bag with a mini-er bag, lol. The leather charm comes with a crossbody strap and even more decadent its a gold chain. You can repurpose it. Win, Win!! The charms carry a satisfying weight that immediately sets them apart, and while there are cheaper dupes floating around in Amazon for the gold charm, these ain't them. "Pay the Five Gina" becuz the dupes hold no candle to the real thing. I don’t own a full-size Tabby, but these micro versions feel like the perfect entry point. For me, the smaller charm becomes an accessory rather than a bag, worn the way you’d wear a necklace. Thoughtful, dainty, and unmistakably me. If I had to sip it or spit it, lol (ooh that's so unlady like), I'd definitely chug it aka KEEP IT!! Although it's subjective if it's worth the splurge but I can assure you, they won't last too long. These bags are big enough to hold ALL my patience **snickers** and I'll see what else it can hold. These days, I don't carry much: phone in hand, lipgloss, earpods, hand sanitizer and keyfob-DASSIT!! If I come across a wristlet, I'll see how it looks adding the Tabby to it and report back. Consider this your sign to accessorize boldly, sip slowly, and treat yourself to the good stuff. Some things are worth savoring, like a perfectly pulled espresso and a charm that finishes the look just right ☕✨